Revisiting Zindagi Gulzar Hai in 2020
Television was never a norm in our family, and the cable was ought to get cut during school examinations, especially the Board ones. According to our father, it was a major distraction. If we speak of Indian schools, then there are numerous exams throughout the year. The best time was summer vacations as we used to have uninterrupted cable connection for two months. So watching serials would've been a bad idea as you'll be missing months worth of storyline. Honestly, I was never even interested in watching any serial as such because I knew most of them were dumb already.
I remember, while quickly switching between channels, deciding what to watch, I suddenly stopped at Zindagi channel to watch a girl confronting a guy in her college. Kashaf, protagonist, played by Sanam Saeed, was confronting Zaroon (played by Fawad Khan) in their college library. It was surprising as the actors looked unlike our usually caked actors of TV serials. At that time, I did not know it was a Pakistani TV serial. At that time I seriously used to think that Pakistan only consumes Indian entertainment and does not have, what we call, TV or Movie industry of its own. I guess that was my single story of it. ( To understand the reference : The danger of a single story)
That was the first time I saw a female protagonist, who looked like me, and like many of us, confidently confronting a privileged and arrogant boy for his ways. Kashaf and Zaroon library scene This time this girl was not in love, swooning her hair around the bushes, or, accidently falling into the arms of her 'dream man'. And that struck me. This time it was a girl, strong in her ways, speaking her mind and being unapologetic for it. I knew that was the representation I wanted.
From then on, I completed the drama (which had like 30 convenient episodes to it) and loved every bit of it. Kashaf, through her diary entries, expresses her ideas and beliefs of love, life, relationships, God and society. It beautifully depicts the life of an average middle-class girl, changing buses to reach college and breaking her sandals in the way. The issue of coming late at night that too with a boy. She confronts the hypocrisy of her father who left the family because he wanted a male child, and tries to return when he gets to know that Kashaf has become a government officer.
Moreover, it beautifully depicts the nuances of a married relationship between two strong-headed individuals (she ultimately marries Zaroon and I hate her for this). Two people from completely different backgrounds with poles-apart personalities struggling to find a middle ground.
Over the years, the show has been criticized for not representing 'the spirit of feminism' efficiently. Although, I believe that it is closer to our reality, and our reality is not entirely feminist.
Zindagi Gulzar Hai is bound to touch the heart of many middle-class people, especially women through its hard-hitting dialogues and complexity of both the main characters Kashaf and Zaroon. The simplicity of its ambience yet the intensity of situations just wins my heart whenever I watch it. (Yes, I've watched the show couple of times!) I have watched various Pakistani dramas ever since and always there was something or the other to learn from them.
Below is the link to the clip I came across on YouTube and it came across as a breath of fresh air.
If anyone plans to watch the drama it is available on Netflix.
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